The moment of conception connects into oneness, the spirit of baby and the creation of a future body. The spirit has a very strong will and only love gives this strength. The most valuable – love – is a necessity for conceiving baby in order to give the child the best treasure it could inherit and pass to the next generation.
This is why when a child is conceived in the passion of love, a moment of loving desire, this child will give parents a pleasant pregnancy, a lot of joy, easy labor and would be born with the knowledge of being loved and how to love.
Baby is coming out in peace and comfort to the world where everything is scary and unknown, being protected by love of the parents. These babies born without stress, in a loving environment are usually healthier; grow faster, are more intelligent and more successful in life.
I repeat here we can trace original stress to the time we were conceived by our parents. In that moment your soul is separated from universal energy and it becomes autonomous. The first thing it searches for is a feeling of love which is so prevalent where the soul came from. Unfortunately in that exact moment our parents know very little about what is happening. So this is your first lesson – to learn to forgive your parents because they were unaware of the importance of the moment of conception and did not welcome your soul with the appropriate love from their hearts.
Considering the communication babies have with their parents starting from conception and even before -it is why it is very important to not use pregnancy as an achievement – such as to get a man, establish yourself in another country, hold a relationship, make a point to your parents, control somebody, revenge, or to get attention.
David Chamberlain, birth psychologist and a pioneer in the field of prenatal development, has written several ground-breaking books in this field: “Babies Remember Birth: And Other Extraordinary Scientific Discoveries About the Mind And Personality of Your Newborn”; “The Mind of Your Newborn Baby”, and his newly released “Windows to the Womb: Revealing the Conscious Baby from Conception to Birth”.
The Importance of the Pregnancy Period of Development
The research clearly shows that this period lays the foundation for a person’s internal working model of reality, particularly beliefs about themselves and their place in the family and larger world. This is why it is very important for mothers to believe that the baby is perfectly okay and start to trust her baby, and especially talk to baby!
This period begins shaping children’s brains and their relationship with their parents and the world. I’ve found that early trauma is a major cause of intractable conflicts in adult relationships.
Research on prenatal development validates many of the things once considered “old wives” tales, such as the importance of talking, singing, and playing music in communication with an unborn child. These are now recognized as some of the significant first steps in parent-child attunement.
Significance of Music
Sound affects the physical activity of the fetus. In an experiment using ultrasound pictures, the fetus was shown to react to different types of music. From this experiment, researchers found that the largo movements from classical music quieted the fetus. Largo music has about 60 beats per minute, which is about the same as the mother’s resting heartbeat. Music with a faster beat takes the child out of resonance with the mother’s heartbeat.
Scientists have proven during pregnancy, baby‘s mind is receiving a huge amount of information and recording it. Prenatal studies for example, indicate that conflict between the parents and in the family disturbs the fetus. The secretion of adrenaline in the mother’s blood not only causes stress reactions in the fetus, but can also cause both physical and psychological delays during prenatal development.
Families with little or no conflict and families with significant conflict were studied for five to ten years. These studies found significant differences in growth rates, development rates, and psychological problems of the two groups of children. Research indicates that babies are able to remember everything and are deeply impacted by the events around them. Unfortunately, they are not able to communicate this at the time.
Many of them remember exact conversations adults who were present at their birth had with each other, while others even knew what the parents were thinking. This anecdotal information supports other research that newborns are able to tune into the thoughts and feelings of those around them.